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GOD IS A FAMILY GOD

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Do your children know God as real and personal in their lives? Many children grow up in “Christian” homes and yet never have a personal experience with Jesus Christ. They don’t get to know God in a personal way. And yet our God is a personal and relational God. He longs for fellowship with His people.
 
One of the names that God calls Himself is “The God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob.” Our God is the Creator of the world and yet He does not call Himself “the God of Creation.” He is the creator and upholder of the whole universe, but He doesn’t call Himself “The God of the Universe.” He calls Himself by the names of His covenant people.
 
As we read through the first book of the Bible, only two chapters tell us of the creation of the whole world. The rest of the book until chapter 50 is all about people—about His chosen servant, Abraham, and his children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. This is our God. He is a family God. He says in Jeremiah 31:1: “I will be the God of ALL THE FAMILIES of Israel, and they shall be my people.”
 
When God introduced Himself to Moses out in the backside of the desert, He said: “I am the God of thy father (that would be Terah), the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob.”
 
When God gave the commission to Moses to tell the Israelites back in Egypt that God was coming to deliver them, He told him in Exodus 3:15: “Thus shalt thou say unto the children of Israel, the LORD God of your fathers, the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob, hath sent me unto you: this is MY NAME FOREVER, and this is my memorial UNTO ALL GENERATIONS.”
 
He also wants to be your personal God and your family God. He longs to be your friend. He wants you to teach your children to be friends with God. God created us for His fellowship. Of course, we can’t be friends with God if we have sin in our hearts as our sin separates us from God. That’s why He did to save us and free us the power of sin so we can enjoy fellowship with Him (Isaiah 59:2).
 
Don’t let your children grow up in your home without knowing God. Teach them who God is. Draw them close to Him so they will love Him with all their hearts and minds and souls and strength. Teach them to talk with Him and be friends with Him so they not only know about God but learn to know Him experientially.
 
I pray that God will be personal and real to you and in the lives of each one in your family.
 
Blessings from Nancy Campbell
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IT’S TIME TO WAKE UP!

 

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Paul had a passionate desire for the new believers in Thessalonica. He said to them: “You know that we treated each of you as a father treats his own children. We PLEADED with you, ENCOURAGED you, and URGED you to live your lives in a way that God would consider worthy. For he called you to share in his kingdom and glory” (1 Thessalonians 2:11, 12 NLT).
 
How does God want fathers (and I believe that includes the mothers) to treat their children? He doesn’t want them to take their parenting casually or complacently. No, it is full on and full time—ardently, diligently, and passionately pleading and urging your children to walk worthy of the Lord.
 
This is not only feeding and clothing your children. This is not sending them off to be educated by a liberal and socialist agenda that seeks to destroy our children and turn them away from their faith. This is living our own lives and hoping our children will make it.
 
This is “full on” intentional parenting! This is taking time every morning and evening to read God’s Word to your children and pray with them. This is diligently teaching them God’s word and His ways to your children throughout the day, on the road, when getting up and going to bed (Deuteronomy 6:6-9).
 
We are living in an unprecedented hour when only four percent of Christians have a biblical worldview! Why? It comes back to the family. It comes back to the fathers and the mothers. We are the ones who are responsible to imbed God’s truths into the hearts and mouths of our children (Isaiah 59:21).
 
It’s time to wake up. It’s time to rise to a new level of parenting. We cannot take our children to church and hope for the best. We must night and day penetrate God’s laws into their hearts. Encouraging. Pleading. Imploring. Urging, Charging. And praying!
 
“Dear God and Father, we pray for a new spirit of parenting to arise in this land. Draw fathers and mothers back to their families. Give them a vision to passionately urge their children to prepare for the eternal world. Amen.”
 
This is the only thing that matters. We have been wondrously called into God’s kingdom. But also to glory! Nothing else is as important in this world than preparing ourselves for the glory that awaits us. Give your children a vision of the glory that awaits them if they will learn to live worthy of God in this world.
 
Blessings from Nancy Campbell
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SERAIAH’S STORY

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Last week I posted a testimony from Seraiah sharing how SUPER CUTE DRESSES are such a blessing in her life. Scroll down to read it if you missed it. Today I am sending you SERAIAH’S STORY of how God has worked in her life and guided her into His ways.
 
SERAIAH’S STORY
 
I grew up in a family that prided itself on putting on a good show. We looked put together and pleasant for church with dresses and smiles, but our home life was riddled with rebellion, discord, fakeness, and bitterness. I confessed Jesus as Savior when I was seven years, but it was only a head knowledge with no understanding of the person of Christ.
 
It wasn’t until I was 13 years at a Christian summer camp that I truly met Jesus and desired Him to be my Savior and Lord. I saw these girls singing with their family. I could see on their faces that they knew this Person they were singing to. They really knew Jesus. Christianity wasn’t just a set of rules to follow, but a true relationship with Someone I’d never met. I gave my whole life to God that night and never looked back.
 
My family didn't understand this change and why I was asking so many questions. I was eager to serve God any way He could use me and volunteered for street ministry opportunities, worked at a Christian summer camp, and learned to be bold in my faith.
 
I went to a Christian Liberal Arts College and met my husband there. We were married at 20 when I still didn’t know much about cooking, keeping a house, or raising a family.
 
When we had our first child at 24 years, my only childcare experience was at a daycare I’d been working at for two years. I only knew what I didn’t want to do. When a nice lady gifted me a copy of Above Rubies to encourage me in my mothering, I was so excited. I eagerly read the pages over and over, trying to glean all the truth of God’s Word that I could from it."
 
Since then, I found Nancy’s podcast, LIFE TO THE FULL w/ Nancy Campbell, and listen every week to her teachings from the Word.
 
God has grown a whole different legacy for my husband and me and our family. We do not reflect either of our original families, but together, we strive to reflect God alone. He has planted us over 1,000 miles from our families and hometowns, uprooting us in more than a physical way. He is growing us through each challenge as we embrace every blessing He gives, for “every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation, neither shadow of turning” (James 1:17).
 
I’ve had many ladies approach me in the store or walking down the street and reminisce with me about their mother or grandmother who made matching clothes for their children, and about the old ways and simpler times. As Christ-following mothers we really are leading in the old ways.
 
I can’t even count the number of times I’ve had older folks approach me and express frustration over the lack of modesty and respect in the younger generations and then praise our family for reminding them of the “good old days” when ladies looked like ladies and men looked like men. When children knew to respect their parents and families attended church together each week. The Bible says in Luke 5:39: “And no one, after drinking old wine wishes for new; for he says, ‘The old is good enough.’”
 
God’s ways may seem old-fashioned, but they lead to our eternal home in Heaven. There's an old hymn called "I'll Take the Old Highway" that our children love to sing. It says:
 
There are many new roads we see each day
Each one claims they are the way
To a life of satisfaction more than we've dreamed
They are lined with things that please the eye
But they cannot satisfy
So I decided to walk the highway with the redeemed
 
I'll take the old highway
The one that's called straight
It's so very narrow all the way to the gate
It started at Calvary that's where I got on
It's the old, old highway paved with grace all the way home
 
Our highway may look to worldly men
Like it's a road to a bitter end
For we are promised tribulations all along
The difference is easy to explain for we have everything to gain
So just count me in the number going home
 
The old way is fathers leading family devotions around the dinner table, mothers joined by children with their hands deep in garden soil, training behaviors as they train their tomatoes. Joy fills the home.
 
I was listening to a podcast by Nancy a few months ago and she challenged us mothers to set a timer for each hour to stop and give thanks to the Lord. No matter what is going on, stop, and give God thanks for something. It’s a great habit to get into and really challenges us as a family to be in an attitude of thanksgiving. It trains us in joy, for thanksgiving is the seed that grows the plant of joy.
 
Our children love singing to the Lord with all their might. Not a day goes by that our children aren’t humming or singing hymns or praise songs with all their might. We live on a mountain top in East Tennessee, and I am sure our neighbors for many miles can hear their jubilant praises. Psalm 100:1-2 says: “Shout JOYFULLY to the LORD, all the earth. Serve the LORD with gladness; Come before Him with joyful singing.”
 
Our children take this to heart and love to praise their Creator. The only time I ask them to quiet from this singing and praising the Lord is when I have a phone call coming in or it is nap time. Our children love to converse with strangers and share exciting discoveries in nature or what the Bible says about this or that with them. Sometimes they are rebuffed, but more often than not, they receive an open door to share about Jesus with someone who might not be open were an adult to approach them.
 
Our children make goodies and homemade cards several times a month and walk miles down the mountain to our elderly neighbors to visit them, bring joy to them, and pray with them.
 
We moved to East Tennessee several years ago from Northern New York. East Tennessee is a very different culture. Many people attend church, but many do not know Christ personally and are not His disciples. There is a spirit of religion in this area of the US: with a lot of mixing of Scottish and Native American mysticism and superstition with Christian principles. As we work to allow God to shine His light of purity in this swampy darkness of syncretism, God is using our children to pierce the places we as adults aren’t allowed access.
 
We are peculiar everywhere we go, husband and wife with a trail of children in matching clothing, often singing hymns or praise songs as we walk. It’s ok to be different, it’s ok not to fit in. In fact, we are supposed to NOT fit in. It is an act of worship.
 
Romans 12:1-2 says: “Therefore I urge you, brethren, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies a living and holy sacrifice, acceptable to God, which is your spiritual service of worship. And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect.”
 
The Greek word translated “be conformed” means “to conform oneself (i.e. one's mind and character) to another's pattern (fashion oneself according to).” We aren’t meant to follow another's pattern, only His. By this, we are able to prove the will of God; to show the world that which is good, acceptable, and perfect. It is in this peculiarity, this different-ness, this non-conformity to ungodly behaviors and lifestyles that others get to see God’s will at work in this world.
 
It might be lonely in the corner of the world that God planted you, but His work is never in vain. Be diligent, dear mothers, in loving and serving your husbands joyfully, in raising and shaping your children diligently, in showing the world what God’s perfect plan is. He has promised that His word will never return void. As we go about our daily lives, we become His Word to those around us; living out His commands, proving what the will of God is.
 
Take heart, dear mother, your work is not in vain; it is the MOST important ministry! Colossians 3:23-24 says: "Whatever you do, do your work heartily as for the Lord, rather than for men knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward of the inheritance. It is the Lord Christ whom you serve."
 
SERAIAH ALCORN
Stinking Creek, Tennessee, USA
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God has blessed Kenneth and Seraiah with Isaac (14), Theophilus (12), Abigail in Heaven, Raphael (10), Adarah (7), Alexander (5), Simeon (3), Ellyanah (1) and new baby #9 due summer 2026.
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WHO WILL THEY BE LIKE?

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I read this morning Luke 6:40: “A disciple is not above his teacher, but everyone when he is fully trained will be like his teacher.”
 
Wow! That is a challenge to us parents, isn’t it? We as mothers are the primary and best teachers God has given to our children. Teaching and training our children are a huge part of motherhood.
 
The big question is: when your children are fully-trained and come forth out of your home, will they be like you or will they be like those in the secular world?
 
It is so sad to see so many young people from Christian homes that are more like the world. Instead of being trained by their mothers, they are trained by all the junk and deception and worldly mindset on their iPhones.
 
The word “fully trained” in the Greek is “katartizo” and means “to complete thoroughly, repair, restore, adjust, frame, mend, prepare.” Do you notice that it is far more than teaching. We must constantly adjust, repair, and restore. Because we live in this world, we cannot help some of the influence of this world system touching our children. Therefore, we must constantly be checking their world view and adjusting and restoring them back to God’s ultimate truths.
 
Did you know this terrible statistic that only four percent of Christians have a biblical worldview today? I hope that’s not you. Because you must be strong in your biblical worldview in order to impress it into the hearts and minds of your children.
 
Did you notice that another meaning of the word is to mend? This is the word when that is used when Jesus found James and John “mending” their nets. It’s not only teaching and training but “mending” wrong ideas and hurts in their lives.
 
However, I do think that above all our teaching and training, the greatest way we impact our children is through our lifestyle. Do they see by our daily actions that we truly love God with all our hearts, souls, minds and strength? Do they see that we are lovers of God’s truth and His ways? Do they see that we love to pray? Do they see God is first and paramount in every part of our lives? If they don’t see this, all the things we say will not have much impact.
 
Many blessings to you,
 
Nancy Campbell
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ARE YOU THANKFUL?

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I am sure you will be busy preparing for Thanksgiving Day tomorrow. It comes around so quickly, doesn’t it? I pray you have a blessed day with your family and friends. I think it is such a wonderful time to think of things for which we can be thankful. Although of course, we should have a thankful attitude every day of the year.
 
The following are just a few of the things for which I am thankful.
 
T I thank God for TEACHING me His ways.
 
H I thank God for giving me my HUSBAND. Marriage becomes more and more beautiful with time.
 
A I thank God for ANOINTING me to be a mother. Is there any greater blessing, apart from our salvation, than to enjoy the blessings of children and grandchildren?
 
N I thank God for creating me to be a NURTURER and NOURISHER to my family and to others.
 
K I thank God for His KINDNESS to me.
 
F I thank God for my FAMILY, extended family, and those who consider themselves to be part of our family.
 
U I thank God for giving me UNDERSTANDING of His truth. My greatest delight is to receive revelation of God’s truth from His living Word.
 
L I am thankful for LIFE. I thank God for LOVING me enough to die for me and shed His precious blood for my sins. He not only redeemed me but dwells within me to give ABUNDANT LIFE. I don’t like to let a day go by without thanking Him for His great and unspeakable and eternal salvation.
 
May thankfulness fill our hearts every day of the year, even in the most difficult and darkest times.
 
Blessings from Nancy Campbell
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BOUND FOR HEAVEN

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We reminded each other yesterday that we are strangers and pilgrims in this earth. However, we must do more than know this truth. We must confess it.
The great faith chapter reminds us: “These all died in faith, not having received the promises, but having seen them afar off, and were PERSUADED of them, and EMBRACED them, and CONFESSED that they were strangers and pilgrims on this earth” (Hebrew 11:13).
 
The saints of old CONFESSED they were strangers and pilgrims. They acknowledged they were citizens of Heaven. The faith men and women of old lived in the light of the eternal kingdom. What is your confession? Do you focus more on working for the materials possession of this world or are you building for the eternal kingdom? Are you preparing your children for the eternal world?
 
We learn to do this is by continually CONFESSING we are strangers and foreigners. Perhaps we should confess this truth each morning as we rise. “Thank you for being with me today, Father, as I live as a pilgrim and stranger here on this earth. Help me to realize that I belong to another kingdom apart from this world. And in the name of Jesus, I confess that I am a stranger and pilgrim today. Amen.”
 
The word “confession” is the Greek word homologeo and means “to speak and confess the same words God says to us and about us, to agree with God, and to publicly acknowledge God’s truth.” We must daily confess the truths that belong to God’s kingdom instead of the humanistic jargon of this humanistic society.
 
As you daily confess the truth that you are only a temporary resident on this earth, you will begin to live more according to this truth.
 
Blessings from Nancy Campbell
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GOD WALKS WITH YOU

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I know you are aware that this world is not your home and you are a stranger and pilgrim on this earth (1 Peter 2:11). But did you know that you are not a sojourner on your own? God Himself walks with you. God says in Leviticus 25:23: “For you are strangers and sojourners with me.” Isn’t that amazing?
 
We do not walk alone; God walks with us. When we feel like an outcast because we don’t fit in with the culture of this world, God is an outcast with us. When we suffer pain and persecution, God suffers with us. What wonderful comfort to know that God pilgrims with us through this time of exile.
 
God uses His word to guide us (Psalm 119:19, 54 and Hebrews 11:13). As exiles of eternity we must keep His words in our hearts and mouths. The people who belong to earth live by a different mindset than the God-fearing sojourner. They belong to a different kingdom with different values and worldview. Therefore, if we don’t continually hold on to God’s words, we can easily be dragged into the mindset of this world system instead of living by heavenly rules and principles.
 
It is also important to teach your children that they are only temporary residents and foreigners on this earth and have a greater destiny than this world.
 
Hebrews 11:9, 10: “By faith he (Abraham) sojourned in the land of promise, as in a strange country, dwelling in tabernacles with Isaac and Jacob, the heirs with him of the same promise. For he looked for a city which hath foundations, whose builder and maker is God.”
 
GOD WALKS WITH YOU
 
I know you are aware that this world is not your home and you are a stranger and pilgrim on this earth (1 Peter 2:11). But did you know that you are not a sojourner on your own? God Himself walks with you. God says in Leviticus 25:23: “For you are strangers and sojourners WITH ME.” Isn’t that amazing?
 
We do not walk alone; God walks with us. When we feel like an outcast because we don’t fit in with the culture of this world, God is an outcast with us. When we suffer pain and persecution, God suffers with us. What wonderful comfort to know that God pilgrims with us through this time of exile.
 
God uses His word to guide us (Psalm 119:19, 54 and Hebrews 11:13). As exiles of eternity we must keep His words in our hearts and mouths. The people who belong to earth live by a different mindset than the God-fearing sojourner. They belong to a different kingdom with different values and worldview. Therefore, if we don’t continually hold on to God’s words, we can easily be dragged into the mindset of this world system instead of living by heavenly rules and principles.
 
It is also important to teach your children that they are only temporary residents and foreigners on this earth and have a greater destiny than this world.
 
Hebrews 11:9, 10: “By faith he (Abraham) sojourned in the land of promise, as in a strange country, dwelling in tabernacles with Isaac and Jacob, the heirs with him of the same promise. For he looked for a city which hath foundations, whose builder and maker is God.”
 
Blessings from Nancy Campbell
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MY CUP RUNS OVER

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By Crystal Navarro
 
For the past 17 years I have embraced being a full-time stay at home mom. A homemaker. Making a home. Loving my husband. Raising babies. Learning with my children. Growing in my faith. Leaning into obedience. Developing a servant’s heart for the family God has given me.
 
Now, as my eldest child is becoming an adult and looking toward his own future, I take this moment to pause and reflect on these past two decades. Nothing has really gone according to my plans, yet everything is as it should be. I can’t imagine the life of being torn into a million pieces chasing career dreams while simultaneously grasping for precious moments with these five incredible human beings who look to me and their dad for constant guidance, love, support, and affection. 
 
Today was a non-typical moment of quietude as we had out of town friends keeping my youngest boy’s attention. As I mused at the absence of constant activity normally occupying my full days of life as a full-time wife and mother, I am perfectly content. I am gratefully awestruck at what God has done. Who He has allowed me to be. What a gift!
 
Too often I viewed this precious gift as a chore. As something I had to do simply because no one else was willing or able. Or because daycare was too expensive, or traditional school choices too taxing, or extended family members too busy and uninterested. All those circumstances seemingly burdensome or unfair were really God’s grace leading my husband and I to simply do what all parents are called to: to put their family above worldly pursuits. To look heavenward. To elevate our minds on things to come.
 
Nearly two decades in to embracing my true calling as a full-time wife and mother God is already allowing me to glean fruit. The relationship I have with my husband and children is more than I could have ever hoped for. Getting to know each of these six men in my life. Loving them. Nurturing them. Feeding them. Pushing them to be real men. Encouraging them to pursue righteousness above all else. Listening to their hopes, their fears, their aspirations, and knowing what each of them are truly passionate about fills my cup like nothing I ever thought possible.
 
The world wants to steal this from us mothers! The world wants us to not know our own children. To not know how to help them. Guide them. Love them and even discipline them. Each child is so unique. There is no formula. Each relationship is special and requires careful attention to detail. Everyone is their own study. Everyone matters for their own sake.
 
We all come into this world with our own God-given talents and abilities. It’s up to intentionally dedicated mothers to slowly unwrap each little person who is gifted into their arms. Husbands are called to provide and protect in such a manner that they set their wives up for success. Thankfully, my husband has gone above and beyond caring for our temporal needs so that I can focus all my attention on creating a space, a faith-filled welcoming home, offering love and support to all who enter.
 
My heart is bursting in this moment of reflection with such gratitude to our Heavenly Father for granting this gift to me. Words fall short. And so, I will stop. The day is drawing to a close and I must go kiss little boys who have played hard and laughed long today. Thank you, Jesus. Thank You for the gift of being a homemaker in the year of our Lord . . . 2025.
 
CRYSTAL NAVARRO
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Charlotte, North Carolina, USA
Picture: Jesse and Crystal with their sons:
Back row: Joey (17), Jeremiah (15),
Front row: twin brother Brick (9), Crosby (6), and twin brother Baylon (9).
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HAPPY MARRIAGES

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We must continually water our marriage with love, kindness, and encouragement. The more we water it the more it will blossom.

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OUR LIFE’S ADVENTURE

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OUR LIFE’S ADVENTURE
By Melissa Parenty
 
In 1979 I lost my mother suddenly when I was just nine years old. She had a cerebral hemorrhage one evening and was rushed to a major city hospital. She was in hospital for about a week, and I was allowed to visit her once for a very short time, under strict orders not to “upset” her. She was about to have a major operation of which we had been told she had a 50 percent chance of survival. No crying allowed.
 
I remember sitting next to her bed, staring at her through the metal rung sides of the hospital bed that had been pulled up which made her seem unapproachable. I distinctly remember her talking to my father about hospital bills, and I recall thinking, “Why isn’t she looking at me, why isn’t she talking to me, why is she talking about trivial things? I may never see her again!” We must credit children with wisdom beyond their ages, as they often have such otherworldly insight. This was in fact the case. My mother never recovered from the operation and passed away.
 
I was devastated. I’d love you to read the article below called THREE GENERATIONS IN THE WOMB to understand how God brought comfort to my heart regarding this.
 
Our family had already been through many deep trials. There was generational trauma on both sides of my parent’s history. After my mother’s death, childhood was definitely well and truly over. Very challenging years followed.
 
Moving along several years. Due to being blessed with wonderful friends, as well as above average sporting skills and great coaches and teachers, I succeeded in school despite the turbulent homelife behind the scenes.
 
The summer I turned 17 years I met a gorgeous young surfer from out of town who was visiting for the holidays. He began telling me about Jesus. One of my first questions to him was, “Where was God when my mother died?”
 
“He was crying with you,” he answered. This answer touched me deeply. We developed a friendship. I remember going on a date to church with this guy, hearing the Gospel and thinking it was very Good News, and so I believed.
 
This friendship turned to courting and this gorgeous Christian surfer named Christopher became my husband. We had two children in quick succession when we were very young. A daughter who we named Alexandra and a son who we named Jake. I found motherhood beautiful, exciting, inspiring, fun, non-stop challenging and rather overwhelming all at the same time!
 
Our son Jake’s first twelve weeks of life had been affected by severe colic symptoms, resulting in serious sleep deprivation which had been very hard to go through as I had a little toddler to tend to as well. My husband and I were very young and still growing up ourselves in so many ways. With all these things in mind, including the “worldly” idea of limiting children, we decided we were good as a little family of four and so my husband had a vasectomy. Several people at the time cautioned us, “You are very young. Wait!”
 
But we thought we knew best. I didn’t want to pray about it though. I probably sensed deep down that God might have another idea! We enjoyed our season as a family of four. We loved being parents and had lots of fun times.
 
Skip ahead about five years and God sent a lovely friend into my life who was an amazing homeschooling Mumma with a large family. I loved visiting her and thought she was incredible but also thought I could never have a huge family like that! She shared her testimony with me, having been a Catholic nun until she was 30 years, she was impressed to leave the convent. She married late, and she and her husband believed together to receive all the blessings of children that God would send them.
 
She introduced me to Above Rubies, and I started to read and discover so much truth about how God designed the female body so wonderfully for reproduction and that our wombs are divinely sacred. I was also confronted by the fact that the blessing of “increase” for children seemed to be the only one that many people say no to (including myself at the time). We say yes to increase of things like health, wealth, promotions, and influence easily—but balk at that one.
 
The Holy Spirit began to work on my heart, and I became aware that the decision to stop having children had not been consciously laid before God. I was convicted in a sweet way that my womb was a gift from God and that I had shut it down in fear and ignorance. Together with my husband we prayed about this. Quite understandably my husband was not overly keen about raising this subject to the surface, but he was willing to hear.
 
In time we became united to reverse his vasectomy and prayed that if God wanted us to have more children, He would send them. Everyone around us thought we were a bit crazy. Our two children were already aged about ten and eight. We were way out of “babyville” territory. Why would we go back there?! However, we felt we were at least putting the ball back into God’s court.
 
The reversal was a success. God indeed wanted to send us more children. He gave us a daughter Sophie, a son Levi, and then three more daughters—Hosanna, Coco, and Mia. There is a 20 year gap between our eldest and youngest daughters.
 
We have enjoyed the ride, albeit like a breath-taking roller coaster one at times. I, nor my family are “picture perfect” Christians. Those who know us understand that we are real people with real life issues going on. Some seasons have been full of joy and a lot of things going right, others have been messy and hard, some (most) are a mix of the two.
 
We just keep on doing life with Jesus, holding onto our faith no matter what happens. God has led us to experience lots of wonderful adventures as a big family, including overseas missions in France and quite a few hospitality ventures. As a couple we are mission oriented “project” people. I don’t have space to fill all that in here, but I truly believe when we open our lives to trust God deeply, and walk in faith, He opens up wonderful adventures for us.
 
THREE GENERATIONS IN THE WOMB
 
A “seed” that would grow into new adventures in my life was the gift of a hand-me-down t-shirt from a friend that had babushka dolls on the front. Not long after receiving it, I learnt about matrilineal lineage and how female fetuses at just 20 weeks of age already have their reproductive eggs. It blew my mind to realize I had been present inside my mother who was inside her mother, when she was a baby in the womb. I also realised that I have “carried” my grandchildren inside my daughters when they were in my womb.
 
The babushka doll represents matrilineal lineage to me in a very real way. The sense of connection with preceding and future generations is so amazing, and in some cases deeply comforting. I have grieved that my mother never got to meet my daughters or they her, but how wonderful it is to know that at one time we were all connected and present to each other. When I was a baby in her womb from 20 weeks to 40 weeks gestation, my mother, myself, and my five daughters were present together.
 
This connection to babushka dolls inspired the writing of my book that has recently been published with Arkhouse, called “The Babushka Tree.” One of my favourite things to do as a mother was to read aloud quality literature to my children in the evenings after dinner. I would intentionally choose books that would inspire faith and grow good character. In the writing of The Babushka Tree, I prayed that God would help me achieve that type of story.
 
I then went on to write a Biblical reflection Guide that is placed after the story, to afford readers the opportunity to meditate and reflect, with aligned Scripture verses and prayers.
 
MELISSSA PARENTY
Gympie, Queensland, Australia
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Christopher and Melissa are blessed with seven children and nine grandchildren so far (four of the children are now married).
 
Melissa speaks fluent French and from 2007 – 2015 they lived in France as missionaries with Pioneers where they planted a church on the Atlantic coast—Surf Church Hossegor—and founded Surfhostels Biarritz and Bidart.
 
Melissa sees her greatest calling as being a wife, mother, and grandmother, while also embracing the Proverbs 31 vision of an industrious woman. The Parenty family love hospitality and at their family table have welcomed people from all around the world. Since moving back to Australia in 2015, they are owner operators of a café, “The Hungry Surfer.”
 
You can contact Melissa via social media (search The Babushka Tree on Facebook and Instagram) or email: This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.
 
To learn more about her book, THE BABUSHKA TREE, go to the next email. It can be purchased on Amazon: https://a.co/d/3ErRqeB
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MOTHER YOU ARE...NEEDED

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Mother, you can’t be replaced. You are needed.

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WHO GETS THE BLESSING?

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Are you feeling overwhelmed today. Do you sometimes feel that you are pouring out your life with no time for yourself. Let me encourage you today with Proverbs 11:25 (TPT): “Those who live to bless others will have blessings heaped upon them, and the one who POURS OUT HIS LIFE to pour out blessings will be saturated with favor.”
 
Dear mother, you do not lose by pouring out your life for your family. In fact, you don’t find your life by trying to look after yourself as the world entices you. Jesus told as that we find our life by losing it in the lives of others. Mark 8:35 has always challenged me: “For whosoever will save his life shall lose it; but whosoever shall lose his life for my sake and the gospel’s, the same shall save it.”
 
So lift up your head. Forget all that self pity. The more you pour out your life the more you will be blessed. That’s God’s word to you today.
 
Blessings from Nancy Campbell
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WHAT ARE YOU POURING YOUR LIFE INTO?

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Enjoy your mothering and homemaking today. You are embarked on the greatest career in the nation.
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MOTHERHOOD & HOME

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God didn’t create the woman until He had the home ready for her. God intends children to be raised in the home. Enjoy your home. Love being home. Make it home sweet home.

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A MOTHER’S INFLUENCE

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“I am sure, that in my early youth, no teaching ever had such impression on my mind as the instruction of my mother, neither can I conceive that, to any child, there can be one who will have such influence over the young heart as the mother who has so tenderly cared for he offspring.”
~ Charles Spurgeon
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THE OIL OF JOY

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So true. Your car will seize up if it doesn’t have oil. The Bible calls joy “the oil of joy.” It’s the oil of joy that keeps us going through our distresses and challenges.

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OVERFLOWING IN THANKFULNESS

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Even with the challenges we face in life there is so much for which to be thankful. Have you thanked God today for His goodness? Have you thanked Him for His great salvation?
 
What about the people in your home? What have you thanked your husband for today? You haven’t yet. Well, there’s still time. Don’t forget. And remember your children too. Fill your home with thankfulness to one another.
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A WOMAN'S GLORY

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Without the womb of the woman civilization would eventually die out. With no more babies there would be no more families. Eventually there would be no more cities, no more houses, no more churches, no more anything. The womb of the woman is precious and must be protected and honored

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BABIES ARE AN INVASION

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“Babies are an invasion, all right,” said Reverend Feddes.
 
“They’re an invasion of love into our selfishness,
an invasion of joy into our dullness,
an invasion of mystery into our predictability,
an invasion of purpose into our aimlessness,
an invasion of wonder into our boredom,
an invasion of life into our lifelessness.
 
Babies are an invasion of blessing, promise, and future.”
 
Who wouldn’t want to have a baby?
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ONLY THAT WHICH IS GOOD

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God is good. It is one of His attributes and He wants us to be full of goodness too. Goodness should also be part of our family lives. I notice the word “good” is used twice in Proverbs 31, one in regard to marriage, and one in regard to the home.
 
Firstly, Proverbs 31:12 says: “She will do him (her husband) good and not evil all the days of her life.” My husband reads this Scripture every Friday evening at our Shabbat meal as he reads through this chapter. Sometimes he will say, “She will do him good and not evil some of the days of her life.” He waits to hear if we noticed if he has read incorrectly. Someone will usually interrupt and say, “No, it is “ALL the days of her life.”
 
Secondly, Proverbs 31:18 says: “She perceiveth that her merchandise is good.” This particularly refers to the gain from her home industry. But it also encompasses everything she puts her hand to in her home. It relates to everything she purchases and brings into her home.
 
Dear wives and mothers, we need to keep this vision in our hearts for everything we do. Even when we go shopping. We will only bring back into our homes that which is good. We’ll only purchase good food. Food that nourishes the body. We won’t waste money purchasing devitalized foods such as white flour and white sugar (which is a poison) and packets and tins of food with corn syrup and loads of additives which are mostly cancer forming. Do you read the labels? Sometimes I see something interesting but once I read the label, back in goes on the shelf!
We won’t bring home junky stuff that clutters the home but has no value. We will fill our homes with lovely music, good books, beautiful pictures. Everything that is good.
 
We are so used to this word good that we take it for granted. But do you know the biblical meaning of good (tov)? It will take a paragraph of adjectives and adverbs to give you the full meaning!
 
Here we go: agreeable, beautiful, beneficial, better, best, bountiful, cheerful, excellent, ethically right, fair, fairer, fine, glad, gracious, happy, happiness, joyful, kind, kindness, loving, merry, merciful, pleasant to the senses, pleasant to the higher nature, precious, prosperous, rich, sweet, upright, valuable, and very good.
 
Wow! This gives us a wonderful vision for our homes, doesn’t it?
 
We won’t waste our time on peripheral things; this life is preparing for eternity.
 
We won’t waste money on fleeting stuff; we only bring into our homes that which is beneficial and beautiful.
 
We won’t waste our time eating at fast food restaurants; we are creating family bonding time at home at our own table with all our children around us.
 
We won’t waste our time on trifling entertainment for ourselves; we give our time to productivity that will bless our household.
 
We won’t speak downgrading and negative words; we will fill our home with cheerful, kind, sweet, and encouraging words.
 
Each new day, let’s think of something special and good we can do for our husband. Let’s think of something lovely and good we can do to bring gain and blessing to our homes and continually make them HOME SWEET HOME.
 
Have a lovely day, Nancy Campbell
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