Above Rubies Daily Encouragement Blogs

Through the weekly and daily devotionals you can be constantly encouraged in your great role of parenting, the highest career in the nation. You can also stay updated on what's happening with the Above Rubies ministry.

63 YEARS OF MARRIAGE

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Yesterday was the 2nd March, the day we celebrated 63 years of marriage. We were married in Te Puke, New Zealand in 1963 and are now celebrating 63 delightful years!
 
And what am I doing? Keeping up with life as usual and preparing my sour dough bread. I am mixing in the water to soak the flour (organic spelt and rye) overnight. Today I mixed in my sour dough starter and will let it rise for at least seven hours before I bake the loaves. I have been grinding the grains freshly and baking bread for the last 47 years!
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THE TRUE ESSENCE OF MOTHERHOOD

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Amen

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NEVER TOO YOUNG!

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We enjoyed having the Kelly family with us for Shabbat. Such a precious family. Here is little
Zion, second youngest of 11 children wanting to help with the dishes. He loves to part of everything. Encourage your children to be part of helping with chores from a young age.
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IN MEMORIAM

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This is my brother, Grant Bowen, as a young man. He passed away a week ago in New Zealand. He was 80 years when he moved on to glory and had been suffering with Parkinson’s for many years. Here he is riding one of one wheel bikes (I think this one is about 16 ft high). He could run and get on it without help.

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DON'T BE HOODWINKED

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Dear mother, you have the most powerful career in the nation as you nurture and train your children to be be honest, God-fearing, God-loving, truth-loving, evil-hating, upright, and holy sons and daughters in the midst of a crooked and evil generation. It is a powerful career and impacts the future of the nation! Embrace your God-given mandate with all your heart.

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WHAT IS YOUR MARRIAGE TEMPERATURE?

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There are many Scriptures in the Bible that don’t mention marriage and yet they are necessary for us to enjoy a wonderful marriage relationship.
 
One of them is Ephesians 4:32: “Be ye kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.” This Scripture is for all people in all circumstances, but I believe in particularly applies to marriage.
 
There are some wives who are kind to their children and to other people, and yet unkind to their husband. Oh yes, he could have said something very belittling to you and hurt you deeply. How do you be kind when he is unkind to you? Only by the grace of God and the love of Christ that is shed abroad in your heart by the power of the Holy Ghost (Romans 5:5). And doing kind things for your husband will have its reward. God’s word is true that we reap what we sow. When we sow kindness, we will eventually reap kindness.
 
Oh yes, I must mention. My current Bible is a secondhand one which I purchased from the Internet. I was challenged when I read the notes beside this Scripture from the previous owner: "Not an emotion. Not a one-time action. But a mindset." How true.
 
And what about kind words? Our words have more power than anything else to break down or build up our marriage. Make a point of speaking something kind and loving to your husband every day. I love the words of Proverbs 12:25 (TLB): “A word of encouragement does WONDERS.”
 
However, we are not only commanded to be kind, but to be tenderhearted. What a beautiful word. You can be tenderhearted to your children. Can you be tenderhearted to your husband? He also needs tender loving care. And oh, tender loving words are so powerful. Read these words again in Proverbs 25:16: “A soft tongue breaketh the bone.” Wow, your soft, sweet, and tender words can break down his hard and stubborn heart! You don’t believe it? Well, can I encourage you to try it, not for one day, but day by day and week by week. You will begin to see miracles.
 
And what’s the next thing. God commands us to forgive. It’s not an option. It is a command. No matter what, we must forgive. Forgiveness not only sets the offender free, but it sets you free. A person will stay bound in the pit of bitterness if they don’t forgive. Why do we forgive? Because God has forgiven us.
 
A kind, tenderhearted, and forgiving attitude is the foundation of a beautiful marriage.
 
Love from Nancy Campbell
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DID YOU MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

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Zig Ziglar gives some good advice:
 
“I'll be the first to admit that it's possible that you did marry the wrong person. However, if you treat the wrong person like the right person, you could well end up having married the right person after all.
 
"On the other hand, if you marry the right person, and treat that person wrongly, you certainly will have ended up marrying the wrong person.
 
"I also know that it is far more important to be the right kind of person than it is to marry the right person.”
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WHAT ARE YOU POURING YOUR LIFE INTO?

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It will be the most luxuriant and green where you water the most. Water your marriage and home life before anywhere else.

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ARE YOU KIND?

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If we are growing holier, we are growing kinder."
 
~ Andrew Bonar
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YOUR SACRED MISSION

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It is a sacred mission to embrace to your womb and then to your heart and life the children that God has planned to give you. The purpose of Jesus is to “bring MANY sons into glory.” The obvious fact is that He can’t bring them into glory unless they are first born into this world! Therefore, as mothers, we have a twofold task. Firstly, to bring into this world the children whom God has destined, never holding back.
 
And secondly to lead them to Christ so they will be ready for the glorious world of eternity. Dear mother, this is our most hallowed task in raising our children. The wonderful thing is that in a godly home where God’s word is read daily to the family, children can come to Christ at an early age.
 
2 Timothy 3:15 states: “From a child that hast known the Holy Scriptu4res, which are able to make thee wise unto salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus.” It is the Scriptures that prepare us for salvation, even young children. The word “child” is the Greek word “brephos” and means “a child in the womb,” “a child is newly born,” and “a young child.”
 
Even in a Christian home we can overlook the important of leading out children to Jesus. We must look for these opportunities. The devil is out to get his hands on our children and the sooner they come to Christ, the better. Apart from one who came a little older, all our children experienced a true coming to Jesus at four years of age. And it is just as real to them today in their late fifties and early sixties.
 
Pray that each one of your children will have a real encounter with Jesus Christ. Be open and ready to lead them to Jesus. The most important thing you can do as a mother is to know that they are ready for the eternal world. This is the power of motherhood. You have the responsibility and yet glorious privilege of leading them to salvation and one day taking them into glory with you.
 
On that day, when we stand before God, we will not have any material possessions with us. We will not have a career with us. The only eternal thing we can take into glory apart from our redeemed soul, are the redeemed souls of our children. They will be our “glory, our joy, and our crown of rejoicing” on that day (1 Thessalonians 2:19, 20).
 
Dear mother, do each one of your children (your little ones, your middling ones, and your older ones) truly know Jesus as their personal Lord and Savior? This is your greatest mission.
 
Blessings from Nancy Campbell
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POLISHING TOOLS

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 I remember arriving at the home of my future husband. I wondered what it would be like. He was the oldest son of nine children and back in those days I was not familiar with large families. There were only three children in our home, and we could be unruly. I didn’t expect things to be that perfect!
 
But I was in for a surprise! There was not a thing out of place. The whole house ran shipshape in perfect order. We arrived in the early morning after a night ride on the old steam engine. That night was to be Colins 21st birthday. I had only been in the home a few hours when his mother gave me Colin’s suit and asked me to press it! Help! I knew how to iron but we took suits to the dry cleaners! I was on the spot! Somehow, I managed but I don’t think it was up to par!
 
Staying on a little longer I noticed how the silverware (the cutlery) had to be polished every week and everything was ironed, even the tea towels and pillowcases! Wow, I can’t remember even having silver in our home. Anyway, the silver looked beautiful and shiny when it was cleaned each week with the Brasso, which we used in those days.
 
Which brings me to my thought for the day found in 2 Timothy 2:20, 21 (BSB): “A large house contains not only vessels of gold and silver, but also of wood and clay. Some indeed are for honorable use, but others are for common use. So if anyone cleanses himself of what is unfit, he will be a vessel for honor: sanctified, useful to the Master, and prepared for every good work.”
 
The most honorable vessels are gold and silver (please read 1 Corinthians 3:12-15). However, although gold and silver are expensive and precious, they can tarnish and need regular polishing and shining to show their beautiful gleam.
 
To keep gleaming and shining for the Lord, we must yield ourselves to polishing.
 
We get polished in many ways. God’s powerful Word polishes us as we read it each day. Oh my, I got some polishing this morning as I read some Scriptures that really convicted me. What would we do without our daily doses of the Word to keep us on track?
 
God also uses circumstances, trials, and tribulations to polish us. We don’t like having to go through them, but they are good polishing rags! And He often uses people. Oh, that’s the hardest. People who rub you up the wrong way and get on your nerves. How does silver get polished? We have to rub it up and down until it shines. Often, we must be rubbed up and down to get the tarnish out of us so the life of Jesus can shine through.
 
I think that marriage and motherhood are marvelous polishers. We can come into wifehood and motherhood thinking we are so pious, but we haven’t yet lived so closely with another human being and gradually more human beings to come who grow bigger and bigger and no one is perfect! So there’s going to be lots of rubbing up and down. But oh, as we yield to the working of the Holy Spirit in our lives and let God polish us, He gradually rubs away the rough spots and the ugly spots and shines us up, confirming us into the image of His dear Son (Romans 8:29).
 
Therefore, dear fellow wives and mothers, can I encourage you? Don’t resist the polishing., Yield to God’s ways instead of your own way. Let Him expose the spots and blemishes and deal with them. He will cleanse you and make you whole. And make you shine. You will become a shining gem in your home and wherever you go.
 
Love in Jesus, Nancy Campbell
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PRAY FOR MARRIAGES

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Genevieve shares a testimony about the power of praying for marriages.
I have had an amazing reminder of the power of prayer. I was praying for three marriages and recently had this exchange with one spouse:
 
Me: [A couple of months after I told him I would pray for him and his wife…] “I’m still praying for your marriage every day.”
 
Husband: “I think it might be working. She wants to work on rebuilding our relationship.”
 
Me: [After a couple more months] “I’m still praying nearly every day for your marriage.”
 
Husband: “It is working. She is looking at moving back home in the New Year. “
 
Me: [After a couple more months] “I’m still praying for you.”
 
Husband: “My wife has moved back home . . . things are much better . . . t looks like a small bump in the road now.”
 
Then a few months later the couple in the second marriage I was praying for renewed their vows. I felt like singing for joy!
 
God still listens to prayers. He is still the great Healer. He is still the Restorer. We can still cast our cares on Him because He cares for us! Do you know someone who is struggling? Pray for them. You might not even need to say anything. I hardly did in either case above except to say, “I’m praying.”
 
GENEVIEVE DE DEUGD
Lyles, Tennessee, USA
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INVEST YOUR LIFE

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Your mothering will out last this life. It has eternal blessings. You will take the children you have raised for God into eternity with you. And the more children God gives you the more you will take into eternity with you to enjoy God’s glorious everlasting kingdom that will never pass away. It is a career that will abide forever.

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WE HUNGER FOR MORE THAN FOOD

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We usually think of food being only for the body, but the Bible tells us that food is also for our hearts. Acts 14:17 tells us that God loves to fill our HEARTS with food and gladness. He doesn’t even mention our bodies.
I think we need to starting thinking like God thinks, don’t you?
 
The Passion translation says: “For he blesses us with rain from heaven and seasons of fruitful harvests, and he nourishes us with food to meet our needs. He satisfies our lives, and EUPHORIA fills our hearts.” Is this translation getting a little carried away? No. The Greek word for “gladness” in the KJV is “euphrosune.”
 
Euphoria is associated with the hormone oxytocin, and it is well known that we release oxytocin (joy, happiness, and love) when we sit at a table to eat and fellowship with others.
 
Therefore, dear mother, as you think about what you will prepare for your family this evening, don’t only think about their bodies. Think about their hearts. Think about how to make your table a place that will draw your family to the table. Think about things you could talk about at the table that will release joy, laughter, and happiness. Think about how you could enjoy a little euphoria. Maybe you could ask each one to share the funniest thing that has happened to them this last week.
 
As people made of body, soul, and spirit we hunger for more than physical food. We hunger for nourishment for our soul. David confesses in Psalm 63:5: “My SOUL shall be satisfied with marrow and fatness.”
 
He’s talking about his inner man. He wants to satisfy it with marrow. Do you know what marrow is? Have you ever sucked marrow out of a bone? Most people haven’t today, but I grew up doing this. There’s nothing like marrow. We all competed to get the bone with the marrow. It is so rich and satisfying. But we need marrow for our souls as well as our bodies. Psalm 107:9 says: “He satisfieth the LONGING SOUL, and filleth the HUNGRY SOUL with goodness.”
 
And our spirits hunger too. Does your spirit cry out to be fed? I long for spiritual food. Don’t let the spirits of your children starve each day. Make sure you give them a nourishing portion of God’s Word at your table this evening.
 
Love from Nancy Campbell
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PEOPLE DON’T WANT THEM ANYMORE!

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This is a message from Katie LaPierre:

This is a picture of a rare species.
They are endangered.
 
I know they're cute but for some reason people don't want them anymore.
You're not going to believe this, but people actually kill them when they're inside their mother's womb!
 
Not only that, but people do everything they can to not have too many of them.
 
I know this one may look sweet but don't be fooled. They cause a lot of problems and get in the way of what people really want in life.
 
What people really want is freedom.
Freedom from concern for other people.
Freedom from responsibility.
Freedom from serving.
Freedom from putting our self last.
I'm sure you understand why these species are so rare. They just really don't let us be as selfish as we want to be.
 
I'm kind of joking. Kind of not.
 
Today I was at the YMCA and the only one with a baby. I didn't see any babies anywhere. Not in the parking lot and not inside the building.
Then we left and went to a restaurant to meet some friends for lunch at lunch time (in other words it was busy). But again, there were no babies.
 
Not one, except mine. I was thinking about all of this and when I walked out of the YMCA there were these two women standing by the door and they exclaimed: "it's a baby! It's a baby!" I'm not kidding. That really happened. I felt like I had some sort of zoo animal that was almost extinct. And in a way it does seem more like we are going in that direction.
 
In fact, according to John Hopkins: "In 2024, the U.S. recorded its lowest ever fertility rate of 1.6 births per woman, following a downward trend in fertility rates starting in the early 2000s, and it is consistent with a global decrease in fertility rates."
 
This isn't surprising in the world because I can see why children are pests getting in the way of our own agendas and kingdoms, but for the Christian this should not be the case.
 
I met with a young woman yesterday that wants to be a boy and has been endeavoring to do so for the last few years. I said something that kind of shocked her. I told her: "I didn't really feel like having more than two children. If my flesh had its way I would have had one boy and one girl.
 
But instead I have 11 children because God said they're a gift and reward and so I believe it not because I feel it. But because that's what the Word says. You may feel like a boy but God made you a girl and so my hope is you will go against your feelings and walk in faith according to the way God made you."
 
That's what the Christian life comes down to. We don't make decisions based on our feelings. Otherwise we will constantly be going against the Word of God. We make decisions based on what the Word of God says. God says children are a blessing and reward and gift from Him and therefore I believe it.
 
I hope and pray the church at large will embrace what God says about children and not what the world says. After all, isn't this little species pictured adorable?
 
Love from Katie
Katie LaPierre | Eternally Minded Mamas
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ARE YOU SHINING?

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The first question “The Westminster Shorter Catechism” asks is: “What is the chief end of man?” We all know the answer: “Man’s chief end is to glorify God, and to enjoy him forever.” What a beautiful vision for our lives. This is not only for spiritual moments, but for every earthly moment in your life. In your home. Teaching and training your children. Every moment and every task is sacred when Christ dwells in you. Changing your baby’s diaper is no less sacred than sitting in church.
 
I am always amazed when I read Jesus’ prayer for His disciples and for all who would believe on Him in the future: “The glory which thou gavest me I have given them” (John 17:22). Isn’t that incredible?
 
Jesus came in the flesh to reveal the glory of His Father. Because He is now at the right hand of His Father, He wants His glory to shine out from all who are born again into His family. We are now His earthly vessels to reveal the glory of the Father. 2 Corinthians 4:7 says: “But we have this treasure in earthen vessels, that the excellency of the power may of God, and not of us.” Read verses 3- 6 too.
 
How do you reveal His image and glorify Him? Through your deeds, but mostly through your face. You manifest the glory of God through shining through your loving and kind expressions. Your smile. Your open face (2 Corinthians 3:2, 18).
 
2 Corinthians 2:14 reminds us that we manifest the fragrance of Christ wherever we go. That’s why we don’t wear masks. They hide your face. They hide your expressions. They hide the glory of God. God loves open faces to reveal His glory. The devil would like to cover faces to hide God’s image.
 
If you belong to the kingdom of God, don’t hide your light (Matthew 5:14-16). Let the light of Jesus shine from your face. In your home to your children. And wherever you go. This is how you glorify God.
 
Shine in your home and wherever you go today,
 
Many blessings from Nancy Campbell
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NURTURE YOUR MARRIAGE

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Did you read the wonderful article, NURTURE YOUR MARRIAGE by Shannon Mobley in the latest issue of Above Rubies? You can read it on pages 6 and 7. Sadly, I wasn’t able to get a picture of their family in time for the printing of the magazine so here it is for you.
 
Here are a few quotes from her article:
 
“After 25 years of marriage, I learned that marriage must always trump mothering. My husband was here first. Our union is the foundation upon which everything is laid. We are building our family on the groundwork of a covenant marriage in the Lord.”
 
“Is there a strong united front between you and your husband? Or do the children play sides, as it were, finding a ‘hole’ in your unguarded union?”
 
“Our girls giggle every time my husband gives me a little kiss in the kitchen or decides to dance with me spontaneously with my apron on and spatula in hand . . . They love that we love each other. They want that same romance with their future husband.”
 
“We must feed and water our marriage if it is to survive. When all those sweet children are grown, what will be left of the marriage if we do not tend to it now? We must fight for our marriage above all else.”
 
Picture caption: Kevin and Shannon with their wonderful family: Caroline (23), Mary Grace (20), Ellie (18), Samuel (16), Josiah (15), Providence (13), Levi (11), Susanna Ruth (10), Malachi (7), Madeline (5), Jacob and John David (1).
 
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CREATED, CHOSEN, & COMMISSIONED

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Mother, you are in the greatest career God has given to women. Embrace your calling with all your heart.

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MOTHER YOU ARE...

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Ain’t no hood like motherhood!

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THE GIFT CUPBOARD

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I am sending you this little article today. I love the idea of a Gift Cupboard. I have a Gift Box in my home, one for children and one for adults. I find it such a great idea to have gifts on hand rather than having to rush to the shops at the last minute.
 
THE GIFT CUPBOARD
By Tehila Gonen
 
Whenever I see a beautiful, useful, or original item that is on sale, I purchase it to add to my Gift Cupboard collection. When the birthday of a friend comes up, I simply go to my Gift Cupboard and shop for some gifts that are perfectly suited to her, a special something that I know she’d love and cherish. Or when someone I know is in need of encouragement and could use a sweet surprise, I dive in to my special supply and present them with something to brighten their day.
 
But lately, I’ve noticed something unsettling about my Gift Cupboard. It’s getting fuller and fuller of lovely things, almost to the point of overflowing. The reason isn’t that I have been buying more than I would have in the past. The reason, I now realize, is that lately I’ve been giving less and less gifts to others. I’ve become a Dead Sea.
 
You see, I’m from Israel, and in Israel we have two seas. The most famous one is the Sea of Galilee, which you will be very familiar with from reading the New Testament. This sea has multiple inlets of water, and an outlet into the Jordan River. It serves as the primary source of fresh water for the entire nation of Israel!
 
Another phenomenon that Israelis are proud to call their own is the Dead Sea. Water flows into the Dead Sea from the Jordan River, but unlike the Sea of Galilee, the Dead Sea has no outlet. All the water simply evaporates due to the hot climate, and the salt accumulation is so dense that no living organism can survive in its waters. It is also called Yam HaMavet – The Sea of Death.
 
Back to my analogy . . . As I recently opened my Gift Cupboard, with its contents almost tumbling out on me from behind the door, I was struck with how this once meaningful idea now signified a lifeless source of materialistic accumulation, rather than the encouraging blessing it was originally intended to be. My Gift Cupboard has lately had an inlet, but no outlet.
 
And I realize that we as believers do this more than we’d care to admit.
 
Perhaps, like me, you are guilty of some of the following:
 
We withhold comfort from a grieving sister in the Lord because we feel as though we don’t know what to say.
 
We withhold provision from a struggling family because we are “looking out for number one” in case we might need the extra cash in a week or two.
 
We withhold hospitality from the lonely because it’s easier to just eat by ourselves and not have to make an effort to converse with someone we don’t know that well.
 
And we withhold encouragement even from those we love and care about deeply because we are too distracted with our own lives (or too busy and bothered to open our Gift Cupboard and wrap a little something up that will bless someone’s socks off).
 
God is the God of Encouragement (Romans 15:5)
 
Whether you’re comforting a family member, showing hospitality to a family, giving a missionary some funds, or sending a card to a friend, you’re being an encouragement and serving the God of Encouragement by being His arms and His legs to those He has brought along your path to encourage!
 
We’re all called to encourage others, and amazingly the perks aren’t only felt by the one we’re encouraging!
 
Jesus Himself stated that “It is more blessed to give than to receive!” (Acts 20:35).
 
We think we’ll be depleting ourselves and our resources in order to encourage others, but the very opposite is true. We will be the blessed ones! Bursting at the seams with joy that we have been used to glorify His Name on this Earth in precious, little ways!
 
The thing is that in our lives we need to regularly examine ourselves to know which “Sea” we are.
 
I for one don’t want to be the Dead Sea, receiving good gifts from the Lord, but failing to pass the blessing and encouragement on to others. I desire to be as vibrant as the Sea of Galilee, enjoying the inlet of God’s Grace and Truth and being an outlet of His love to those around me.
 
Which sea are you today, dear friend?
 
TEHILA GONEN
 
Reprinted from THE BEAUTY OF HOLINESS magazine, Issue 9 (Emag).
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